1. To pursue God more than I’m pursuing a relationship.
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you.” – Matthew 6:33

2. To accept that waiting is not wasted time but part of God’s growth process to prepare me for what lies ahead.
“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” 
– Isaiah 40:31 

3. To acknowledge God’s goodness even when life is not so good.
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”  – Romans 8:28

4. To devote myself to growing in His Word, even if it means taking time away from other hobbies and interests that are less spiritually productive.
“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly . . .” 
– Colossians 3:16

5. To flourish as an encourager and problem solver while becoming less of a complainer and problem spotter.
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”  – 1 Thessalonians 5:11

6. To become increasingly grateful for what I have instead of focusing on what I don’t have.
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”  – 1 Thessalonians 5:18

7. To find my identity in Christ, not in the things of this world.
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” 
– 2 Corinthians 5:17

8. To live in a constant state of a worshipful mindset.
“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God – this is your true and proper worship.” 
– Romans 12:1

9. To surrender my whole heart to the One who made it.
“Give Me your heart and let your eyes delight in my ways.” 
– Proverb 23:26

10. To leave behind relationships that are pulling me away from the Lord to make room for those which will draw me closer.
“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed . . .”  – Romans 12:2